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For anyone, starting a conversation can be a daunting task.
But when you struggle with social anxiety, it can feel like scaling a mountain without any gear — talk about feeling ill-prepared. Yet, this article is here to help you do exactly that: Prepare for social situations where you might not know exactly how to break the ice.
Whether you're at a networking event, a party, or even just in the break room at work, these conversation starters will help you break the ice and begin a genuine connection with those around you. So, let’s dig in.
Starting a conversation can stop most of us in our tracks, especially if we become overly anxious in social situations.
Yet, it’s not impossible. And sometimes, it really is about getting one foot in the door. For instance, making a simple but genuine compliment can be a great way to break the ice.
The key is that it has to be genuine. For instance, genuine compliments usually involve specificity and maybe even a reason why (meaning you’ve thought about it). Try it out!
Love that girl’s dress? Tell her and specifically state what you love. (The color, the fabric, etc.)
Open-ended questions are great ways to get people chatting and elaborating without getting into simple “yes” or “no” answers. A few examples include:
This brings the conversation toward a shared experience, which can foster bonding and connection.
Whether it’s the food, weather, or decor, share a positive comment to start a light conversation with zero commitment.
FORD stands for Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams.
This is a great go-to when you’re pulling up blanks in your mind for how to get talking. It can also help you dive deeper with people you already know, helping bring you closer to your friends, family, and loved ones.
Ask someone nearby! This can be great for starting a conversation since it opens the doors to further questions and inquiries.
Alternatively, you can also ask for help. For example, you can strike up a conversation with your pottery partner by asking how they made their bowls or mugs so flawless! Find what works for your situation and try this.
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This can be a tough one for most, but if you have a good sense of humor, it can also break through any initial awkwardness you may feel.
Inevitably, it may depend on the situation and/or vibes. But if it feels right, try it!
You might quickly think that you hate small talk (as most of us do!).
However, small talk is a great way to start off a conversation before digging a bit deeper. And it doesn’t mean the conversation has to stay at this level. Rather, it’s a way to feel out a person and get comfortable before navigating potentially more controversial or touchy topics.
A smile can go a long way!
If you’re hiding out in the corner with your arms crossed, it’s unlikely the opportunity will arise to start a conversation. Instead, assume an open posture.
This can go a long way and open the door to starting a conversation without saying a single word!
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While we don’t want to touch on anything too controversial, talking about a recent event creates common ground and can offer a way to connect with others you might not know too well.
Steer clear from politics or war. Instead, maybe chat about recent festivals or other positive news you’ve heard recently.
Had tons of hurdles making your way toward this specific event?
Share it. Or if a story pops into your mind, tell it. It doesn’t have to be long, but it offers up a bit of vulnerability and can open up the doors to a conversation. It also might just be enough for the other person to share a similar story of theirs!
It’s entirely possible! And yes, it can be nerve-wracking.
However, it can be helpful to know that everyone is probably a little nervous when talking to someone for the first time. Try the above tricks the next time you find yourself in a social situation.
Who knows? Maybe you’ll meet your next BFF or partner by using the conversation starters listed in this article!
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